Where are you looking for the solution?

We all have problems which we think are the biggest. We are always worried about ourselves and the only thing that is on top of all our priorities is I. It’s not bad to be selfish but this world is not moving for you and with you. We are the creator / destructor of all our problems but we admit this only when all the doors are closed, when we are surrounded by darkness, when we go through our phonebook million times looking for someone to talk.

I feel my heart getting soft whenever I see someone crying. My habit of getting attached to people easily is something which is the reason of all my mood swings. No matter what I say; my expectations are always ready to raise their voice and love flying in the air like a rocket. This leads to minor heartbreaks which lead to mood swings.

I keep my eyes open and try to face whatever is coming in my way. My heart does not allow me to run from the worst situations. Winner is someone who is capable of facing and fighting his fears. It is all about fighting; winning or loosing is not in our hand.

Most of the people try to divert their mind when they are upset. They start boozing / smoking to divert their mind. I would recommend them to stay calm and in-senses when upset. It’s better to face the issue then to run from it and you might end up with a permanent solution to your problem.

There are times when we all wish to cry a little; hoping that it will make us feel good. But do you really think that it works??

We all are humans and it is in our nature to open our heart at times. Everyone is not strong to keep it all inside. We all need someone special who can listen to us, who can comfort us and act as a shoulder to rely on.

I respect this part of human nature but would advice you not to get attached to people as it is same as placing your heart on the highway. No matter how hard you try; someone is going to crush it sooner or later.

I have a solution to all those who feel the need of a special friend. Sit down and try talking to yourself when alone. Open your heart, cry, laugh, smile, giggle, play, do whatever you can do. It would not only make you feel light but would also warm your soul which is in frozen state due to unnecessary burden and sufferings.

We have so many un-answered questions in our mind which makes us feel weak. We never open our eyes to find the real solution. We all have solution to our problems. We are the question and we are the answer. Take out some time out of your busy schedule, discuss all the problems with yourself and I am sure that it would act as the ray of light in the darkness of your life.